In Iraq for 365

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Wednesday, March 30, 2005

The Witmer family

Spc. Michelle Witmer was killed last year just five days before she would go home. She had two sisters also serving in Iraq. Michelle was the first National Guard female killed in combat and her death sprung a huge interest from the national media. I am a friend of Lori Witmer, Michelle’s mother. And I recently had dinner with the Witmer family. To my surprise, John Witmer had been keeping a blog, at which is dedicated to Michelle and to help others deal with grief of a fallen loved one.

After Michelle’s death, the media camped out on their lawn and local talk-show hosts said things like they were taking advantage of their daughter’s death. This couldn’t be further from the truth. Similar to the situation in Saving Private Ryan, the Witmer sisters, one of whom was Michelle’s twin, were given the option to return to the U.S. rather than staying in Iraq. It took them a while to make the decision of coming home, and who wouldn’t? Well, the couch generals and media likes debated this issue for weeks and were really crude to a special family. The Witmers are truly genuine people and I hold them in the highest regard.

John is a wonderful writer (he can also grill a mean steak) and I encourage everybody to visit his site… http://www.johnwjournal.blogspot.com. I hope you enjoy this truly remarkable family as much as I have. You'll see what I mean after a couple paragraphs of John's writing.

26 Comments:

At 10:18 PM, Blogger JUST A MOM said...

I remember the story, sad very sad! I'll go read it. So good to hear from you! Hope all is good. Don't stay away so long.

 
At 11:32 AM, Blogger Kim said...

Thanks for posting about his blog Sminky. I remember when she died...

 
At 1:33 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

Thanks for pointing out his blog, Casanova. I remember hearing about Michelle and her family on the news last year. You were right, John's a wonderful writer...I could feel his grief. I cried my way through his archives today. My heart still aches.....

 
At 9:06 AM, Blogger membrain said...

I'm so very sorry for the Witmer's loss. You're right about his writing. Very poignant. I hope you're doing okay dealing with your own nightmares. Kind regards.

 
At 1:54 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

This war and losing lives is very hard. Mine and my husbands best friends was called March 30, 2005. Just a few days ago. SGT Kenneth Levi Ridgley! Losing lives is never easy.
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At 9:48 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

Sminkmeister,

This is a bit unrelated, but I must say it...

You know the analogy of a good salesperson that “He could sell ice cubes to Eskimos’? Well, you could write an interesting and entertaining story about those ice cubes. That is a gift not to be taken for granted, so please keep the stateside stories coming!

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At 5:20 PM, Blogger Rhodent said...

Thanks. I am also still reading "This Is Your War"... Red2Alpha is a great writer!

 
At 12:23 AM, Blogger devildog6771 said...

Hey thank you for the info on the Whitmer family. It is tragic to lose a child. My heart goes out to the Whitmer family.

Anyone who knows anything about twins knows theirs is a unique relationship. Identical twins even feel each others pain. I admire her sister for going home.

She had given enough. Her family needs her now. They need each other. I put a link to them on my blog.

Glad to see you back. Missed you. Take care and thank you for all your sacrifices and your service.

 
At 8:57 AM, Blogger JUST A MOM said...

OK SMINK! Where are ya, it has been awhile. Hope it means your doin good!

 
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At 5:59 AM, Blogger Unknown said...

I'm not sure this is a favorite funny story... I have lots of stories, but I'm not sure I could pick a favorite. But one of the memories that comes back pretty quickly is Michelle attempting to have a British accent. Granted, Rae and I probably started the trend... We would often, quite unsuccessfully, try to speak with British accents. While it was something Rachel and I started, I can remember times where Michelle and I would have full conversations in an accent. We could barely make it through as we would laugh quite a bit at our lack of skill... But that was a fond memory... Then there was the attempt at swing dancing.
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At 6:00 AM, Blogger Unknown said...

i feel the same way- it's hard to pick one memory. one of my all time favorites was on mr. witmer's bday when michelle dressed up in the gorilla costume at the restaurant. the whole experience was hilarious, but especially when we were trying to get the costume on her without falling on the floor laughing. later that night we rode around in my convertible with tim dressed as the gorilla and went to pick n save where tim repeatedly asked the clerks where the bananas were. that was a good time, but of course there were coutless more...
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